Our Pleasure Kit Manual

Before we get into the toys, a quick refresher, because most of us were never actually taught this properly.

The Vulva

The vulva is the term for what you can see externally, including the labia, the clitoris, the urethral opening, and the vaginal opening. It's commonly called the vagina, which is just the internal canal, but the vulva is where most external pleasure and sensation actually happens.

The Labia

The labia are the "lips" surrounding the vaginal and urethral openings, made up of the outer labia and inner labia. They vary hugely in size, shape, and colour from person to person, and all of that variation is completely normal. The labia are also sensitive to touch and can be a meaningful part of arousal and warm-up, not just a "gateway" to other areas.

The Clitoris

The clitoris is the small, bead-like organ at the top of the vulva, and it's the pleasure centre of the vulva. What you can see externally is just the tip. The clitoris actually extends internally, wrapping around the vaginal canal, which is part of why external and internal stimulation can feel so different from person to person. For most people with vulvas, clitoral stimulation is the essential ingredient for orgasm; in fact, only around 30% will orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone. If you're new to finding it, lie down, gently hold the labia open with one hand, and trace either side upward with two fingers from your other hand until they meet at the top. The sensitive nub near that point is your clitoris. A mirror can help if you're still getting oriented.

The entry point to the vaginal canal, located below the urethral opening and above the perineum. It's surrounded by the inner labia and is one of the more nerve-dense external areas, meaning stimulation right at the opening can feel just as significant as stimulation deeper inside.

The internal, muscular canal that connects the vaginal opening to the cervix. It's flexible and expands with arousal, which is part of why warm-up matters:, more blood flow and lubrication make comfortable, pleasurable penetration much more accessible.

It’s not actually a spot! Located a couple of centimetres inside the vaginal opening, on the front (upper) wall, the G-spot is an area many people describe as having a slightly ridged or spongy texture that becomes more pronounced with arousal. It's linked to the internal structure of the clitoris, which is why toys that combine internal and external stimulation (like Violet) can create a different kind of intensity than either alone.

The U-Spot

Just above the vaginal opening and around the urethral opening sits the U-spot, a small, often-overlooked area that can be highly sensitive for some people. Gentle stimulation here, alone or alongside clitoral touch, can add another layer of sensation many people don't realise is available to them.

The Perineum

The smooth stretch of skin between the vulva and the anus. Often overlooked, but rich in nerve endings and worth including in warm-up or as an additional point of stimulation.

Everybody responds differently, and there's no single "right" spot or sequence. Understanding where sensation actually lives is the first step to communicating what you want, whether that's to yourself, a partner, or with a toy.

Three toys, three kinds of pleasure. There's no one way to explore them - start wherever feels most exciting. Most people get the best results with a little water-based lubricant applied first (and topped up whenever you feel the need). Warm up with less sensitive areas before moving to the clitoris, vulva, or wherever feels good for your body, and clean each toy thoroughly between uses. Use solo to get to know what works for you, then bring your favourites into partnered play.

Charge up: Connect to a power source using the USB cable. Align the jack with the indented charging port and gently press it in. Charge for 2 hours before first use, and don’t use the toy while charging. The light will flash while charging and remain solid when fully charged.

Turn on & off: Hold down the power button for 2-3 seconds until air sensations or vibrations begin, and press the button to cycle through intensities. Hold down the power button for 2-3 seconds until air sensations or vibrations cease to switch off. 

Honey is our gentle, flexible palm vibrator, soft, whisper-quiet, and made to fit into palms and between bodies without breaking the moment. Perfect for any external erogenous zone, Honey adds to solo play or fits easily into partnered sex, whether as warm-up, or an add-on to any type of sex. 

Charge up: Connect to a power source using the USB cable. Align the two magnetic dots with the charging port and gently connect. Charge for 2 hours before first use, and don’t use the toy while charging. The light will flash while charging and remain solid when fully charged.

Turn on & off: Hold down the power button for 2-3 seconds until air sensations or vibrations begin, and press the button to cycle through intensities. Hold down the power button for 2-3 seconds until air sensations or vibrations cease to switch off. 

Violet is our rabbit vibrator, combining two erogenous zones at once with a long arm for internal or g-spot stimulation and a soft, flexible arm for external clitoral stimulation. A more compact take on this dual-stim style, Violet is designed for exploring internal and external pleasure together, at your own pace. Stimulating two erogenous zones at once can change the entire experience, it’s what we call blended pleasure. Internal and external touch activate different nerve pathways, and when they're combined, a lot of people find the resulting pleasure or orgasm feels fuller or more intense than either on its own. It's less about stacking sensations and more about letting them build off each other, so if you've only ever tried one zone at a time, blended stimulation is worth exploring.

Charge up: Connect to a power source using the USB cable. Align the jack with the indented charging port and gently press it in. Charge for 2 hours before first use, and don’t use the toy while charging. The light will flash while charging and remain solid when fully charged.

Turn on & off: Hold down the power button for 2-3 seconds until air sensations or vibrations begin, and press the button to cycle through intensities. Hold down the power button for 2-3 seconds until air sensations or vibrations cease to switch off. 

Arousal builds gradually, especially for people with vulvas, so there's no rush to get anywhere. Start with less sensitive zones first (think inner thighs, stomach, nipples) before moving toward the vulva and clitoris. This "outside in" approach isn't a delay tactic, it's what actually makes the more sensitive areas feel more responsive once you get there.

Movement Patterns to Try

Once you're using a toy, don't just hold it still, experiment with how you move it:

• Circles: slow, steady circular motion around or over the area
• Pressure: holding gentle, consistent pressure in one spot rather than moving at all
• Up and down: a straight, repeated motion, great for building steady intensity
• Side to side: a sweeping motion across the area, good for finding unexpected sensitive spots

There's no correct pattern, only the one that feels best for your body on any given day. Mix it up rather than sticking to just one.

Solo, Your Way

• Lying down: the most relaxed option, easiest for full-body warm-up and exploring without pressure
• Seated: gives you more control and visibility, especially helpful if you're still learning your body
• In the shower: water adds a different sensation and can feel more spontaneous (check your toy's waterproof rating first)
• Add movement: thrust or move your body along with the toy rather than staying still, it changes the sensation and builds intensity
• Touch more of your body: bring your other hand into play, nipples, thighs, stomach, whatever feels good at the same time

Think whole-body, not just the toy: solo sex doesn't have to mean one point of focus, getting more of your body involved turns it into a fuller sensory experience

With a partner, try

• You holding it: keeps you in full control of pressure and pace
• Them holding it: a way to guide a partner and build communication in real time
• From behind: allows closeness without direct eye contact, which some people find easier to relax into
• In between bodies: use any toy in the kit between bodies; works well during other forms of intimacy, adding sensation without changing position
• As an addition: pair with fingering, oral, or penetrative sex rather than using it as a replacement. Toys and touch aren't either/or

The golden rule

None of this is about doing it "right." It's about noticing what feels good and following that feeling, adjusting speed, pressure, and pattern as you go.

Safety & Hygiene Reminders

• Do not use silicone-based lubricants with Normal devices. Water-based lubricants are recommended.
• Clean and dry each toy thoroughly after each use with a sex toy cleaning spray or warm soapy water on surfaces which come into contact with the body. There is no need to submerge, boil, or clean toys in appliances such as a dishwasher.
• Store your toy and charger in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
• Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be transmitted via shared surfaces, including sex toys. If using a toy with new or multiple partners, consider using a barrier such as a condom over the toy to help reduce risk.
• Using toys should never involve unwanted pain. Go slowly, use plenty of lubricant, and avoid using toys on swollen, injured, or irritated skin. Stop immediately if you experience pain, irritation, or any adverse reaction.
• Iris and Honey are designed for external use only, while Violet is designed for external use on the clitoris and internal use on the g-spot. Do not insert any toys anally or orally. If moving from external anal play to any other part of the body, always clean your toy thoroughly first.
• Only charge toys using the supplied USB-C charging cable for that toy. Using incompatible chargers or cables may damage the device or cause overheating.
• If your toy becomes damaged, stop using it and contact the retailer where you purchased the toy.
• These toys are designed to suit a wide range of bodies, but every body is different. If it doesn’t feel right for you, listen to your body and contact the retailer where you purchased it to explore exchange and return policies. 

Use only as directed. Any alteration, modification, or use of the kit that is inconsistent with these directions is at the user’s own risk. To the fullest extent permitted by law, Normal accepts no responsibility for any injury, damage, or malfunction resulting from misuse, unauthorised use, or failure to follow these instructions. Nothing in this notice excludes, restricts, or modifies any rights or remedies you may have under Australian Consumer Law.