Option A
Beginner-friendly anal toy kit for all bodies to explore.
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Curious about backdoor play? Choose your perfect fit with two plug options and get ready for mind-blowing anal pleasure! With seven vibration settings and a remote control for hands-free fun, you're all set to explore your deepest desires with this butt plug.
Kit contains: small plug, medium plug and a bullet vibrator with remote, usb charging cable, carry bag and manual.
7 Intensity Levels
One Year Warranty & 100-Night Returns.
Silky-smooth body-safe silicone.
Plugs and bullet vibrator are waterproof (do not use remote in water).
Charging: 2+ hours play time for every 2 hours charged.
Dimensions: Small plug diameter (base) 2.4cm, width (handle) 7.4cm, height 8.8cm. Medium plug diameter (base) 2.6cm, width (handle) 7.7cm, height 10.2cm. Bullet diameter 1.5cm, length 7cm.
Quick Start Guide
1. Charge your bullet & remote, then insert your bullet into one of the plugs, using with a drop of lube to help slide it in.
2. Build arousal around other areas of your body first - check out the videos on this page for lots of tips for butt play beginners!
3. When you feel ready, insert the plug gently, using plenty of lube & topping up throughout.
4. Use your remote to explore different vibrations!
First time with this product? We recommend our educational videos, FAQs & the Option A Manual.
Now you can use your kit to explore…
With a partner
Take your favourite partnered positions to the next level. Wear a butt plug while having sex in your favourite positions for explosive pleasure.
Masturbation
Wear a plug while touching yourself in your favourite spots with hands or toys for incredible solo orgasms.
Blended orgasms
Anal feels incredible when blended with other erogenous zones, using other toys to intensify all sensation and send you over the edge. We highly recommend our g-spot vibe Darcy, our clit air vibe Quinn or c-ring Flynn.
Edging
Our other favourite way to explore more intense orgasms! Play with control and bring yourself or your partner close to the edge over and over for a bigger release.
All at once
For those who want it all! The beauty of this kit is that you can explore anal, vaginal, external, internal zones for a full body blended orgasm. There’s three components to the kit, so you can use them all at once (on or in) your body and/or others.
Just the bullet
This little bullet is so discreet you could keep it in a bag or pocket and no-one would know - you could even easily integrate it into any sexual experience.
Building up
With a modular kit, you can explore building your way up to a larger size for more intensity, or if you're keen to build up to anal play with a penis or larger dildo. And some days you may just be into a smaller or bigger size - there’s endless options for you!"
- Discreet shipping & billing: Orders arrive in unmarked, padded mailer bags and are billed discreetly as 'Normal Wellness'.
- 100 night stand returns policy: if you don't love your toy for any reason, return it within 100 nights for store credit equal to the value of your purchase and we'll help you find a better match.
- Our products are designed in Sydney by experts with qualifications in somatic sexology to ensure your pleasure.
- And in the last four years, we've helped over 50,000 people enjoy good vibes... and over 10 million orgasms!
- We're also one of Australia's best-reviewed sex toy brands: scroll down & read our reviews for yourself.
Why Choose
Explore our beginner-friendly anal toy kit for all bodies to explore.
Anyone curious about (or already loves) anal pleasure. Whether solo or partnered, Option A opens the door to intense waves of sensation, deep relaxation, and some of the best sex of your life.
The anus is highly sensitive and full of pleasurable nerve endings, and for those with a prostate, the pleasure potential is even greater. Option A's two size options and flared base make it the perfect safe, beginner-friendly introduction. Go slow, find your fit, and unlock surprisingly powerful whole-body pleasure
A beginner's guide to anal play, with Normal's sex coach & co-founder Georgia Grace
The A to Z of Anal
Abbie & Normal Sex Coach Georgia Grace explore the ins and outs. Swipe left to explore!
Did you know?
Fun facts about butt stuff and why you should get behind it
Did you know?
Fun facts about butt stuff and why you should get behind it
Our bodies all have powerful erogenous zones which can be accessed from behind, regardless of sex or sexuality. In fact, your anus has the second highest concentration of nerve endings in your body, after the clit - that's why it feels so good.
People sharing their experiences of anal play describe sensations like intense waves of pleasure that begin deep inside your body, a full body release, a deeply relaxing experience, like an ejaculatory orgasm just way more intense (for people with penises). Anal is intimate, fun and can be some of the best sex of your life.
Anal is not just about the hard and fast penetration we see in porn. There are many, many ways to have amazing anal sex, including internally and externally, with plugs, fingers, penises, tongues, toys…the world is your butthole.
Like Abbie's "bionic pussy" experience, combining anal stimulation with other erogenous zones can supercharge your most-loved positions. For many people, the 'blended stimulation' technique helps to experience more powerful orgasms when stimulating the clit, g-spot, vulva, perineum, penis, balls, nipples and more.
People with penises can climax from anal stimulation without ejaculating: we know right?! Many can experience a full-body, intense experience of pleasure, that doesn’t have to involve any penis stimulation and may not end in ejaculation. From outside to inside there’s so much pleasure to explore.
Anal does not have to be a messy experience, and for anyone who does anal stuff regularly, they’ll know how simple it is to keep it clean and sexy. We have a whole video that goes through your options, whether that’s more of a lifestyle approach or a simple pre- and post- routine, just like any other sexual experience.
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Explore easy guides to all things anal
Ways to play
Here's how you can use your modular kit to explore...
Ways to play
Here's how you can use your modular kit to explore...
Take your favourite partnered positions to the next level. Wear a plug (or two!) while having sex from behind, on top, oral, during mutual masturbation and so much more.
Wear a plug while touching yourself in your favourite spots with hands or toys for incredible solo orgasms.
Our other favourite way to explore more intense orgasms! Play with control and bring yourself or your partner close to the edge over and over for a bigger release.
For those who want it all! With the VIP upgrade to 2 bullets and 2 remotes, you can explore erogenous zones simultaneously (like vaginal and anal) for a full body blended orgasm.
This little bullet is so discreet you could keep it in a bag or pocket and no-one would know - you could even easily integrate it into any sexual experience. Just remember to only use your bullet externally!
Start small and work your way up to a larger size for more intensity, or build up to anal play with a penis or larger dildo. And some days you may just be into a smaller or bigger size - there’s endless options for you!
Reviews
- Sophie M.Verified BuyerWhat is your age range? 30-39How are you using your vibe? Solo + PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A vulvaHow do you identify? FemaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I have some experience12/15/25What is your age range? 30-39How are you using your vibe? Solo + PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A vulvaHow do you identify? FemaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I have some experienceReviewingOption ARated 5 out of 5 starsLove it
Love it! Super fun. The only downside is the silicone can get quite smelly and there's no in-depth cleaning guide that I could find on the product page (there may be something elsewhere on the website that I haven't found).
Was this helpful?Normal12/16/25Thanks Sophie! Glad you're loving Option A, and if you have any further cleaning questions, please check out the product manual, as well as the FAQs listed below on our product page, and feel free to email hey@itsnormal.com with any further questions.
Manual:
https://itsnormal.com/pages/hey-im-option-aFAQs to check out:
- How should I clean my kit?
- What safety & care instructions do I need to follow with Option A?
- Lucy W.Verified BuyerWhat is your age range? 30-39How are you using your vibe? PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A vulvaHow do you identify? FemaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I'm basically a sexpert12/14/25What is your age range? 30-39How are you using your vibe? PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A vulvaHow do you identify? FemaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I'm basically a sexpertReviewingOption ARated 5 out of 5 starsa fun addition to p-in-v sex
Got this to add a certain je nais se quois to our usual routine - easy to use, nice experience for both of us. Had a few false starts trying to work the remote but got there in the end
Was this helpful? - Benjamin B.Verified BuyerWhat is your age range? 40-49How are you using your vibe? SoloWhat anatomy do you have? A vulvaHow do you identify? FemaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I have some experience11/14/25What is your age range? 40-49How are you using your vibe? SoloWhat anatomy do you have? A vulvaHow do you identify? FemaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I have some experienceReviewingOption ARated 5 out of 5 starsAnal Pleasure Toolkit
My first ever butt plug experience - woah!! Slow and steady (with lube) for the sensual win - definitely my best 2025 back door investment. Love the design, the remotes, the colour, the vibrations - the whole arse package. 5 stars and a happy peach.
Was this helpful? - Matthew M.Verified BuyerWhat is your age range? 40-49How are you using your vibe? PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A penisHow do you identify? MaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I have some experience8/4/25What is your age range? 40-49How are you using your vibe? PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A penisHow do you identify? MaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I have some experienceReviewingOption ARated 5 out of 5 starsAwesome Product and Service
From order to delivery was quick and the product information was great.
The website is good also for helpful tips and information about beginner use.
Was this helpful? - EvVerified BuyerWhat is your age range? 40-49How are you using your vibe? Solo + PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A penisHow do you identify? MaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I'm basically a sexpert7/22/25What is your age range? 40-49How are you using your vibe? Solo + PartneredWhat anatomy do you have? A penisHow do you identify? MaleHow much experience do you have with vibes? I'm basically a sexpertReviewingOption ARated 5 out of 5 starsOption Awesome!
Fantastic vibe. Love the modularity and ability to choose and change what suits you or your partner at the time.
Well made. I'm a big fan of the remote. It's quality and isn't flimsy. T-shaped design of the plugs is a winner as they're much more comfortable than a round flared base.
And the carry bag to pack everything into is an added bonus!
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FAQ
Everything you need to know
Yes! Everyone can use and experience (lots of) pleasure from a product like Option A.
Check out our educational videos above for more information on your anatomy and why anal stimulation can bring pleasure for people with penises and for people with vulvas.
And remember - the type of stimulation you enjoy is a function of your anatomy, not your sexuality - anal is for everyone.
Shower & bath usage.
The plugs and bullet in Option A are suitable for use in the shower or bath, but do not submerge the remote or charge any components near water.
Cleaning & storage.
Clean your toys with a dedicated toy cleaner or warm soapy water after use, and if you are moving from anal to vaginal or oral, make sure you clean any fingers, toys or genitals before you do so. This is really important to ensure you’re not bringing bacteria from the anus to the genitals. There is no need to submerge, boil or clean in appliances like a dishwasher or washing machine.
Remember that you should not use silicon-based lube with a silicon toy, as this may damage the toy (water-based lubricants are best).
Store toys in a clean, dry, cool place away from direct sunlight or heat. If you notice damage, warping or other changes to your toy's shape, do not continue using it.
Anal & vaginal use only.
While there are alternate uses for many sex toys, we do not recommend this device for oral use.
Always use lube.
Lube is an essential for all sexual experiences, but particularly for anal play, as the rectum doesn’t self-lubricate. Add a toy-friendly lube to the plug and your anus, then keep it handy so you can re-apply as needed.
Build up slowly, and don’t push through unwanted pain.
Sex should never involve unwanted pain - and the same goes for anal. It can take some time building up to a butt plug, so don’t be alarmed or disappointed if you can’t get the plug in the first time - that’s pretty normal, especially if you’re new to it!
Remove the pressure on yourself, take your time and go slow with it. Explore the external stimulation techniques in this article before moving to internal play with your fingers or a small plug.
Do not try to insert the bullet into your body on its own.
This one might sound obvious, but just in case: the bullet is not safe for internal anal stimulation or internal vaginal stimulation. It is designed to be inserted into one of the two plugs to make them vibrate, and you can also use the bullet alone on other erogenous zones like the clit, nipples, tip of the penis - just make sure you wash it thoroughly if you’re moving from anal to any other play.
Do not try to push your toy past the flared base.
This might also sound obvious, but when using Option A it is essential to ensure the flared base sits comfortably outside the anus. The toy is designed to be a size that should fit comfortably for most people, but remember that our bodies are all diverse, so if you feel like the plug is fitting too tightly or too loosely for your body, or not fitting correctly in another way, just remove it and get in touch with us. Our team are always happy to help you out with an exchange to another product if it’s not the right fit for you.
Always use the plug with a bullet inside it - even if the bullet is not vibrating.
If you purchase our VIP kit, you can use two plugs at once (one per partner, or double penetration with an anal and a vaginal plug).
If you purchase our OG kit, we do not recommend using the spare plug without a bullet inside, or bending it on your finger while stimulating other erogenous zones - this is to ensure the structure holds it shape at all moments.
More questions?
Email our friendly team via hey@itsnormal.com if there's anything you're not sure about! They'll be happy to give you any further information on how to use your new product safely.
AUSTRALIA
Products ordered to Australian addresses are typically fulfilled in 1-2 business days and delivered in 5 business days. However, during periods of heavy parcel volumes on the Australia Post network (for example, Valentine's Day, EOFY or Black Friday), we advise that you should expect delivery timelines of 5-10 business days for your orders.
Please note that once a product is shipped, we are unable to take responsibility for any issues with delivery (for example, inputting the wrong address or not indicating a safe place to leave your parcel); so if you have any concerns, reach out to our customer support via hey@itsnormal.com early!
If you have any issues, use the tracking code you received via email when your order was fulfilled to check on the progress of your parcel with your country's shipping provider.
Your tracking number from Australia Post will be sent out once your order has been fulfilled, so you can keep track of your order's progress there.
If you are still concerned about a delivery you're waiting for, please reach out to our customer support team via hey@itsnormal.com.
UNITED STATES
We've just begun shipping a selection of our toys to locations in the USA.
Products ordered to US addresses are typically fulfilled in 1-2 business days and delivered in 5 business days. However, during periods of heavy parcel volumes on the Australia Post network (for example, Valentine's Day and Black Friday), we advise that you should expect delivery timelines of 5-10 business days for your orders.
You can find all of the details of what to expect in this shipping policy, which we recommend checking out before you order.
If you're outside of Australia and the US, send us an email to let us know that you want Normal in your country via hey@itsnormal.com - and we'll let you know when we launch there.
We deliver a digital manual to you via email when you make your purchase, and all of these product guides are stored here permanently.
If you have more questions, feel free to check out our General FAQs - and of course, our friendly customer support team are just an email away at hey@itsnormal.com!
Your kit includes a small plug and a medium plug, a bullet vibrator (which can be inserted into either plug), a remote (which controls the bullet), an instruction card, a charging cord (for both your bullet and remote), and a gorgeous toolkit bag with six pockets which you can use to store your kit items plus a couple of other vibes.
It will arrive in an Option A recyclable tube, and be delivered in an unmarked padded bag made from recyclable materials.
Lube is a must when using a butt plug, as is cleaning your product every time you use it (you can use warm soapy water, or a cleaning spray like ours, or both!).
If you'd like to add a Normal lube and cleaning spray, via our Toy Care Essentials, you can do add these when you add your product to your shopping cart and check out.
If you're already well-supplied, no stress!
All of our vibes are made from non-reactive, non-porous body-safe silicone, and free from all the nasties (phthalates, PVC, vinyl, jelly rubber, TPR/TPE & latex).
All orders arrive in discreet, unmarked, padded recycled mailer bags or boxes (so you can focus on good vibes, stress-free).
- Charge the bullet & remote: Here’s a 2 minute video from our co-founder and inhouse sex coach Georgia Grace explaining how to do it! But if you'd prefer to read, read on. Attach the USB charger which comes with your kit to the bullet, and when it completes charging, move over to the remote to charge. The charging ports on both the remote and the bullet look like two silver circles and they are magnetic. We recommend giving the bullet and remote at least 2 hours to reach full charge and regularly charge to keep your kit in best working order. Please note, if you have other vibes from our range, the vibe charging ports are in different locations and may look different on some vibes, so we recommend you check the product guide for your specific product to confirm how to charge.
- To turn on the bullet: Turn on by holding the button for around 2 seconds or until the light turns on, then press the button again until you feel a buzz, and press to cycle through different intensities to find your vibe. To turn it off, hold down the button until it stops vibrating.
- Using your remote: Once your bullet is turned on and vibrating, hold down the power button on the remote for 3 seconds, and then use the intensity button to cycle through and find your vibe.
- Inserting and removing your bullet: Here’s a quick video where our in-house sex coach and Normal co-founder Georgia Grace demonstrates how to do it in under 30 seconds. The plug is designed to grip the bullet firmly (for obvious reasons!) without making it difficult to insert or remove when the time comes. We recommend adding 1-2 drops of lube on your bullet before insertion, to help you insert and remove your bullet from the small and medium plugs with more ease. Then push the bullet all the way in to insert, and wiggle gently out to remove.
As this is an anal kit it’s particularly important to wash the kit thoroughly with warm soapy water and/or a vibe cleaning spray like ours after every use.
It’s also a good idea to wash the vibes before you use them again, just to make sure they’re all squeaky clean, body safe and to keep everything in great condition (including you!).
If you plan on moving from anal or other body parts you will also need to thoroughly wash vibes before using them anywhere else.
As you’ll see in the kit - we’ve also gifted you this beautiful toolkit bag to keep your vibes safe, free from dust and ready to use whenever you want them.
We deliver a digital manual to you via email when you make your purchase. We’ve also included a card with information on what's inside, how the kit functions, how to get started and 10 ways you can use it. Additionally, all of our product guides are stored here permanently. If you have more questions, feel free to check out our General FAQs - and of course, our friendly customer support team are just an email away at hey@itsnormal.com!
Your order will be billed discreetly as a purchase from ‘Normal Wellness'.
We think life is too short for vibe regrets! If you don't love your vibe for any reason, contact us within 100 nights to return it for store credit equivalent to the purchase price. Our team can even help recommend you something else to ensure you find a perfect match.
You also have a one-year warranty for any issues affecting the function of the product (excluding those which may be the result of non-recommended use). You can find more information here.
Small plug: diameter (base) 2.4cm, width (handle) 7.4cm, height 8.8cm.
Medium plug: diameter (base) 2.6cm, width (handle) 7.7cm, height 10.2cm.
Bullet diameter: 1.5cm, length 7cm.
We currently only ship the new and improved Option A to locations within Australia and the United States.
Please note that once a product is shipped, we are unable to take responsibility for any issues with delivery (for example, inputting the wrong address or not indicating a safe place to leave your parcel); if you have any issues, use the tracking code you received via email when your order was fulfilled to check on the progress of your parcel with your country's shipping provider.
If you have any further questions, check out our shipping policy.
If you're outside of these locations, sign up for the waitlist on this page to let us know that you want it in your country - and we'll let you know when we launch there.
You're also welcome to explore our range of free and inclusive sexual wellness education resources anytime - our guides and video courses are already used in over 40 countries and counting!
Check out our general FAQs page, and if you can't find what you need, send an email to our friendly customer support team via hey@itsnormal.com.