Cheeky Conversation Cards

4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
26 Reviews

An empowering conversation kit about pleasure and politics.

1 box, 50+ conversationsDiscreet deliverySolo, lovers & friendsSexy & thought provokingDate night & party friendly

Explore spicy conversation starters about modern intimacy designed for friends, lovers and solo reflection. Discover your desires, tackle your taboos and build deeper bonds. 


  • What it is: 52 questions crafted by Hannah Ferguson of Cheek Media to help you have better conversations about sex, dating & relationships.
  • Self: Settle down for a quiet evening and use cards to reflect on your turn-ons, taboos & what you'd like to do differently.
  • Partners: From setting the mood with spicy conversations, to building more intimacy & confidence exploring new things together, take the pressure off & use the cards to ask each other fascinating questions.
  • Friends: Connect and share with friends over a wine or a walk to normalise healthy conversations about sex, dating & pleasure.
  • 52 question cards covering pleasure, sex, dating, relationships, politics and more
  • Designed by Hannah Ferguson & Normal
  • Vary your spice level for every situation!
  • Easy to store, carry & use anywhere
  • Discreet packaging, billing & delivery
  • What topic is still taboo for you?
  • How does the mental load affect your sexual experiences?
  • What is something you love doing for a partner?
  • What does intimacy look like for you outside of sex?
  • When do you feel playful?
  • Do you date people based on their political views?
  • What have sex toys taught you about your pleasure?
  • Identify three things that make you feel more connected to a partner during sex.
  • Describe your ideal experience of aftercare.
  • Which sex position feels best for you? Explain why.
  • How do our definitions of sex need to change?
  • Do you think pleasure is political? Why?
  • Do women benefit from hook-up culture?
4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
Based on 26 reviews
26 reviews
  • BAC
    Verified Buyer
    2/20/25
    Reviewing
    Cheeky Conversation Cards
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Solo or together

    The conversation cards are wonderful for foreplay. Talking about sex is hot and it’s lovely learning things about your partner that you didn’t previously know.

  • SB
    Verified Buyer
    12/25/24
    Reviewing
    Cheeky Conversation Cards
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    So good I cried

    I didn't expect to enjoy the conversation cards so much. I actually didn't even think I'd use them. But next thing you know, my partner and I are are reading the cards, starting deep and sometimes funny conversations, and then I'm crying (in a good way I swear). The cards started a meaningful conversation about an aspect of our life together that I didn't know I needed to discuss and it was so helpful! I really really recommend this kit to anyone in a relationship

  • Gabrielle W.
    Verified Buyer
    10/20/24
    Reviewing
    Cheeky Conversation Cards
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 stars

    The conversation cards are great - even though I consider communication in my relationship to be very open, it brings up some really good discussions!

  • Jenny M.
    Verified Buyer
    10/7/24
    Reviewing
    Cheeky Conversation Cards
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Love love love!

    The conversation cards strike a great balance of being fun, encouraging my long-term partner and I to have conversations we haven't had since early days of our relationship, while prompting me to check-in with myself. In my mind this product sums up the essense of why I love this brand - great products, approachable (regardless of where you are on your exploration journey) and supports a culture where we can explore and discuss sex in a safe, inclusive and informed way (START EMOJI PLS)

  • Amber K., M.
    Verified Buyer
    9/19/24
    Reviewing
    Cheeky Conversation Cards
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    4 Stars

    My partner and I found the question cards were quite well crafted leading to some fun and interesting discussions. However as neither of us are particularly political many of the questions regarding sex and politics were irrelevant for us. Regardless we did find out things about each other we might not have otherwise considered to ask. Even things like what is considered to be the definition of foreplay was found to be completely different between us. Overall great experience.

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Sadly no - our limited edition Cheek Kits are all gone.

But by popular demand, you can buy these Cheeky Conversation Cards as a standalone product and check out our range of beginner-friendly vibrators if you're looking for a toy!

Australia

We ship our whole range Australia-wide, with products ordered to Australian addresses fulfilled in 1-2 business days and delivered in 5 business days.

United States

We currently ship most of our vibes and vibe-only bundles to customers in the United States. Products ordered to US addresses are fulfilled in 1-2 business days and delivered in 5 business days.

You can find all of the details of what to expect in this shipping policy, which we recommend checking out before you order.

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