Kink Kit

• Includes: silk-lined padded blindfold, padded cuffs, double-ended paddle (crop and tassel), kink menu, discreet canvas storage sac & outer box.
  
• Crafted with premium vegan leather, brushed steel & silk for a luxurious sensual experience that takes you deeper into the moment. 
  
• One-year warranty.

Blindfold.

Slide on gently (either on yourself or allowing someone else to do so), and adjust until it feels comfortable and is blocking out any light.

Cuffs.

Ask a partner to help you wrap the cuff around the wrist/ankle and tighten to a firm but comfortable level using the adjustable strap.

You can clip the cuffs together to wear in front of your body, behind your body, looped over a bed frame/post, or held in the hand of your partner.

You can also wear one cuff on a wrist or ankle, and the other tied to a bed frame/post/sturdy piece of furniture.

Crop.

You can use this as a way to direct the other person how you’d like them to pose, like an extension of your arm. It's a power move 😉

When touching someone with the paddle, aim for the more muscular and fatty body parts, like the bum or thighs. While some people love to receive touch around their nipples and chest, it’s best to ease into these erogenous zones. Never spank bones or over organs.

As with anything new, we want to start light and slow, only intensifying at the request of the receiver. Your version of a light touch might be different to your partner(s), which is why you should be constantly checking in about how it feels or how you can make it feel even better.

Asking them what they're feeling, and what they want to feel next, can be incredibly sexy - try phrases like “do you like that?” “do you want more?”, “ what do you say?”, “louder” and more.

In impact play you’re trying to increase blood flow to an area, so when you notice the skin starting to get more pink or red or it starts to feel hot, the skin will be sensitive.

Pause regularly throughout to offer variety in sensation like tickling, kissing, blowing cool air or using feathers. This can feel intense and pleasurable, and also gives the receiver a break before the impact returns. As an example, you may give a few spanks in the same area then hold, soothe, kiss or ease the sensitive area before building up the intensity again.

Tassel.

This is a more playful and ticklish toy, use it as a warm up or even as a breather in between using the crop.

Try a nice figure 8 movement of the wrist, or use it on the back, arms and legs, lightly. You can try it on the chest, or use the rod of the tassel to apply pressure to the groin area.

Explore edging, teasing & building anticipation using the tassel.

Combined kit.

Bringing all of the kit components together is a great way to achieve peak pleasure - with the blindfold heightening all of your other senses, the cuffs giving a sense of intimacy and building trust in your partner, and the crop/tassel allowing you to create a range of sensations from gentle to intense.

More, more, more!

Curious about more advanced play?

We've created a whole extra video filled with pro tips on fantasy and role play, how to actually do dirty talk, sensation play, temperature play, orgasm control, incorporating sex toys, spanking & much more for you to explore - check it out below!

I'm new to kink, is this product designed for me?

Absolutely!

Check out the video & written guides on this page for everything you need to know about trying it for the first time.

You might also enjoy using the Kink Menu which comes with your kit to discuss your turn-ons & curiosities with your partner.

I'm excited to try something but I want to discuss it with my partner. Any tips for starting the conversation?

We'd love to help!

Check out the videos on this page, where Georgia, Abbie & Demon offer tons of helpful suggestions for how to start the conversation about exploring something new together.

You may also find some of the guides on our blog helpful.

Are there any important safety instructions?

When we're playing with restraint and impact, it's important to discuss your boundaries in advance, have clear safe words & integrate aftercare practices so that everyone can have a great time every time.

Check out the videos & guides on this page for a comprehensive overview of everything you need to know.

What if I don't love this product?

Check out our 100-night returns policy, designed to ensure you never regret a purchase with Normal.

Does Normal ship this product outside Australia?

Currently no, but most of our toys & toy-only bundles are shipped to the US.

Got other questions?

Check out the extended FAQs at the end of this page and our General FAQs.

If you still need more information, feel free to email our lovely customer team via hey@itsnormal.com.